Judgement Free Zone
Oh the beautiful hurdles of life. I'm learning to love them even if I don't agree with them. I remember growing up it was hard for me to be friends with a girlfriend if she kept going back out with the same loser boyfriend. She would come to me crying and seeking advice. I would give her all the advice and support she needed. Then she would get back with him. I felt slighted as a friend like she chose him over me, but that was not the case, she just couldn't help how she felt for him. Today, I am completely over those childlike feelings. My girlfriend and I have a saying we use often, "If you like it, I love it." I absolutely love having a friend who's ultimate goal is to see me happy. Don't get it twisted, we need to be frank sometimes, but we understand there is a time and a place for deliverance of the undesirable truth. There are times when I specifically ask for the truth. There were other times when she sim...